Named to honour peace, Dilys Armistice Fox to celebrate 100th birthday on 11.11.2018 at Salvation Army care home

A resident living at The Salvation Army’s care home in Hassocks, West
Sussex, is planning to celebrate her 100th birthday on 11th November,
the day the nation will mark the centenary of the end of the first world
war.

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Dilys Armistice Fox, whose parents gave her the middle name Armistice
to acknowledge the significance of her birth on Armistice Day 11th
November 1918, entered the world on the day fighting ceased between
Britain and its opponents at the end of World War 1.

Dilys grew up in the Caerphilly area of Wales before moving to London
when she married her husband Henry Fox in 1944, who was in the RAF.  
Dilys was a children’s nanny for all of her working life and at the
outbreak of World War 2 when Henry went away to war, Dilys served her
country back home working in an orphanage caring for babies and
children, knowing that was where her strengths lay.

After the war, and when Henry left the RAF he worked as a gardener at
Windsor Park Gardens Estate, working his way up to become Head
Gardener.  The couple didn’t have any children of their own but Dilys
supported countless families caring for hundreds of babies and young
children over fifty years.

Henry sadly died from a heart attack at just 70.  Dilys moved to
Tunbridge Wells in Kent and lived independently there for many years.  
After she retired, Dilys remained an active member of her church and
supported her local community through many different regular groups and
events.  With no nearby relatives, and needing a bit of extra day to day
support in her 90s, Dilys moved into The Salvation Army’s residential
care home in Kent and then transferred to its care home Villa Adastra in
Hassocks, West Sussex, in 2013 where she has lived happily since.

Dilys has always kept herself busy and says one of the secrets of
living a long life is remaining independent and being strong-willed!  At
almost 100 years old, Dilys still crochets every day making gifts or
blankets when staff and friends of Villa Adastra celebrate special
occasions or have babies.

Head of Care at Villa Adastra, Sharon
Bacon, The Salvation Army’s care home in Hassocks said: “Dilys is
remarkable.  We are all so pleased to be planning celebrations for her
100th birthday.  All birthdays are special but the older we get, the
more special our birthdays become and we always make a fuss of our
residents, whatever their age. This year, it is a privilege to be
acknowledging Dilys’ significant birthday on the centenary of Armistice
Day too.

When word got out in the village, many of the schools and children’s
groups contacted me saying they wanted to make cards for Dilys.  I have
even heard that on 11th November itself, there is talk of the local
uniformed groups’ making a detour on their Remembrance Day afternoon
parade coming past Villa Adastra to sing Happy Birthday before they
carry on into the village.  I know that not only Dilys but many of our
other residents will appreciate that special gesture.  After all, you’re
only 100 once and it is fitting we celebrate Dilys’ birthday on 11th
November as we also remember those who gave their lives through conflict
serving our country,”

Published by Residential Forum

The Residential Forum is to promote the achievement of high standards of care and support for children and adults living in residential care and nursing homes, supported housing, residential schools and colleges, hospices and hostels. It contributes to improving the quality of service to the public. Members of the Forum are people of standing and experience drawn from the public, private and voluntary sectors, as well as some who can speak for service users and carers.

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